Yu Min definately needs a self esteem perker. I give her points, though, because she did try to leave him because she realized he didn't love her the way she did him and she wouldn't get what she wanted with him, but he's the one who clung to the relationship.

The secretary is basically made of awesome, and definately knows him better than he knows himself.

And of course he's more bundled up. It's so he can ransmly strip of pieces of clothing and give them to her.