Ah, but see, there's a HUGE difference between disliking a character because of how they treat someone, and disliking them because you don't like them paired with someone, whether because you don't like the pairing, or they're in the way.

It's a large part of why I dislike the way most people seem to approach things from a shipping perspective...it always seems like they're subconsciously blaming characters for getting someone they don't think they should get, or for getting in the way of what they want.