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So, last night, [livejournal.com profile] prozacpark, [livejournal.com profile] lyssieand I had a threesome watched Farscape. Close enough.

Anyway, if you read two of our journals, you know what the conversation probably eventually turned to during post-viewing chat. If you read all three, you know there was no escaping it. Namely, fiction and society and women.  Not that the post's title isn't a dead giveaway.  Now you know if you want to run.

Anyway, we were talking about how we all often have trouble getting into a fandom’s favorite male character. I mentioned that often, part of my problem is that the favorite’s personality and angsty backstory and goals and motives are rather a dime a dozen in romance novels. And it’s not that I dislike them, it’s just that I’ve seen them so often that I’m not as impressed as others tend to be. (Let’s face it, everyone has that reaction to some form of character, be it gender or genre or relationship related. Different tastes and all that.) Eventually, this turned to one of the defenses for slash being that it’s feminist because it’s predominantly romantic and/or sexual fiction being written by and for women. I’m not interested at the moment in getting into whether you or I agree on that stance. However, when I see that brought up, my immediate thought is “but what about romance novels?”

Because, guys? Romance novels? Are romantic and often sexual stories written by and for women, often with the added aspect of featuring a woman struggling against sexism in a society. More obviously so in historicals, but the element is also there in many contemporaries.

Please note here that I’m not about to say romance novels are feminist. Like many things, they can be feminist depending on the approach, but nothing about them is inherently feminist. Being about women doesn’t make something feminist, and being about men doesn’t make something anti-feminist. Ditto for being written by or for men or women. It’s all about what’s done with it. (Because, seriously. Otherwise? Devil Wears Prada is a feminist manifesto.)

Moving on, let’s look at how romance novels are regarded. They make up over 50% for the prose fiction published and consumed each year. Women automatically buy them every month. The two used bookstores in town? About 75% of their business comes from romance novels. They’re able to run rental clubs because women will buy a dozen new romance novels, read them, take them in for store credit, and get a dozen more romance novels for cheap.

They’re also the only genre of fiction where I know people who refuse to read anything else. I once asked someone why, and she said because with anything else, she never knew if it’d have any women. The woman I asked would probably never even think of it from anything resembling a feminist perspective. She just wants to be assured that there will be women featured positively in her fiction, and that she didn’t have to worry about the woman (or man) suddenly dying at the end. I don’t know if that’s the case with all romance novel readers (It probably contributed a lot to my reading them so much as a teen, though I can’t remember my reasoning there.) but it’s something to think about.

But look at how they’re commonly viewed. There are, arguably, the least respected prose fiction genre out there. You aren’t supposed to say they’re good. They can be entertaining, they can be escapism, you can read them for “those bits,” but you shouldn’t say that they’re good, and you should probably point out those other things you read that are quality, too, just to cover yourself.

Look at The Tale of Genji, which is commonly regarded as the first modern novel*. It was also written by a woman. And then books became popular, and suddenly men wrote them, not women. Rather like how Izumo no Okuni created kabuki and all the performers were also female. And then it got popular, and only men were allowed to be involved.

Anyway, flash forward, and you have men writing epics with damsels and sex. And then Kathleen E. Woodiwiss writes this huge thing called The Flame and the Flower and it’s the same thing, only it’s written for women, and with even more sex. And you know, to our modern sensibilities it’s a “rape means true love” story with a creepifying power imbalance and horrendously purple prose, but then? I first read it as a teen and reread it a few years ago. And guys? That book is kinda really bad. But even now, I look at the story and when it came out and what was around then, and I go “Yes, I get it. Ginormous problems and overwhelmingly alpha hero aside, I totally get it.”** And it came out and women said “This! We want more of this!” And they got more, but it also became the shameful secret that keeps the publishing industry afloat. (Yes, there were old school Harlequins then, but have you read those? Can we say pure and pristine despite overwhelmingly alpha guys”? I think we can.) And the more genres romance novels started to have, the less respected they came. And yeah, many are badly written. Many things in ALL types of fiction are badly written. But many are good, too.

But really, why? Why is it that the predominant fiction that’s by and for women is also the least respected? Why is one of the trendiest things out there to negatively compare things to fiction for women? (Not that I’m innocent of it.) Why do things become more respected when women create them and they’re taken over by men, but lose respect when women take them-even part of them-for their own?

*P.S. Please rec a good translation. I have Edward G. Seidensticker’s abdridged version, but may now be reading it as a group thing.

**And in a way, I somewhat feel this way about Twilight. Because I couldn’t read it am I’m kinda horrified that it’s the book for teenaged girls these days, but you know away? Strip away the writing and the actual plot and all, and at it’s core, you have a girl who wants something, is told by a man who supposedly knows better that she can’t have it, and even that it’s for her own good. And she goes after it anyway. And she gets it. And I think a response to that is a lot of the popularity.

 

Date: 2009-04-19 10:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] crumpeteer.livejournal.com
I think part of the hero liking is that there are only so many hero archetypes that get used much. Everyone's got a favorite. I tend to like swashbuckler types with a little jerk to them. I tend to be hard on female characters though. Maybe I just don't connect with them as much, as ones on tv tend to not be a type of woman I understand very well.

Date: 2009-04-20 12:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
Honestly? To use character types that almost everyone will recognize, I can read 30 books about Aragorn for every 1 book I can about Eowyn. Now, I like Aragorn, but after 30 or 60 or 90 times, I'm not going to be impressed by him yet again. So, while I may like him, if my choice is book #60 about Aragorn or book #2 about Eowyn, sign me up for Eowyn, even if Aragorn is the one everyone is clamoring about yet again.

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Date: 2009-04-19 10:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] worldserpent.livejournal.com
Please note here that I’m not about to say romance novels are feminist. Like many things, they can be feminist depending on the approach, but nothing about them is inherently feminist. Being about women doesn’t make something feminist, and being about men doesn’t make something anti-feminist. Ditto for being written by or for men or women. It’s all about what’s done with it. (Because, seriously. Otherwise? Devil Wears Prada is a feminist manifesto.)

100% agreement here. I would say the reason that people don't bring up romance novels in that context is because often in the times when that argument is made about slash, romance novels are not even in the table, not even in the room. To be mentally consistent, though, I would argue that the same argument applies. (In the past, I've made it)

Date: 2009-04-20 12:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
Yeah. The thing is that most who would make that argument for slash would laugh at the idea of applying it to romance novels. The thing is, I can get the idea that part of the appeal of slash is that it's a form of give and take interaction with women. It's just that I think it falls in the category of "for women isn't automatically feminist."

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Date: 2009-04-19 11:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kakkobean.livejournal.com
There are some opinions that state that BL (Boy's Love) provides an outlet for rape fantasies. Though I'm not so sure about it being the sole outlet (because there were plenty of josei dramas that played into the rape fantasy during the 50's), now I simply cannot read some Yaoi stories because I look at them and see everything I hate about society's expectations of a man-woman relationship. The predominant motif in Yaoi manga/anime are unbalanced relationships where the submissive character who is practically female in all ways except in terms of anatomy gives everything and anything to his aggressive counterpart who is SUPREME ALPHA MALE who always gets what he wants. It's just. Gah. People wouldn't be able to stomach them if they swapped the guy character for a girl of equal disposition.

As for why some people believe that Romance novels can't be "good", I think it's along the same lines as for why Romantic comedies aren't expected to ever win Oscars or whatnot--there are certain expectations that people have of the romance/comedy genre that they assume nothing new will ever come out of it--same story tropes, same characters, same...whatevers. Regardless of whether or not this is true of all romantic media, that's what people think--and therefore they assume that it's just a bunch of recycled material that won't get better in the telling.

Date: 2009-04-20 12:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
Yeah, everytime I hear about yaoi in that context, or how its catering to romantic fantasies in the same way as het romances, but with two men for added, whatever, my response is "but...I'll just read something that actually does have a woman if I read that." And yeah, I know part of that is that no women often (not always) make it harder for me to get into something, but...

But it's the ASSUMPTION that bugs me, and the way it's never questioned. I mean, Eragon and Harry Potter (HP comment based on movies, and even there I can tell that HP is the far superior of the two) are about Generic McGeneric Special Fantasy Boy Hero In Generic McGeneric Plot, yet they get huge press and get to be hugely popular, but suggest the same about a romance novel, or a fantasy with a female lead, and you get laughed at.

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Date: 2009-04-20 02:02 am (UTC)
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The last romantic comedy I can think of that was taken seriously is Moonstruck, and that was in 1987. (It won 3 Oscars and was nominated for 3 more.)

Most "romcoms" are pretty formulaic, though, and they're almost always written and directed by men. Part of the problem is that Hollywood has this idea of what women will want to watch, and anything outside that formula is too big a risk. So when women do write romcoms they still tend to be formulaic, because letting women write movies is a big enough risk on its own or whatever. (Seriously the WGA is, what 3/4 male? Or more? I found a stat that in 2004 only 18% of features were written by women.)

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Date: 2009-04-29 05:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ykraiina.livejournal.com
I just wanted to comment on your yaoi comment, and i definately agree. That's the issue I had with it, and that's mostly why I started reading good old non-Japanese/ I guess you can say mostly Asian based (am I discriminating here?) slash. It's totally different, and my favorites because they make sure that BOTH partners are EQUAL in both giving and taking, which is kind of impossible in female/male relationships because its just the way of life/nature. Which is not to say that heterosexual relationships are doomed (not at all!) but it gives us females kind of a romanticized version of fair love? Does that make sense? Also, two hot, attractive, interesting male protagonists leads? Together? Uhm, I don't know about you guys, but as a straight man-loving female- bring it!

This whole topic about females being very attracted to m/m slash is very interesting... i read an essay on it recently. I don't really know exactly what to pin it on... but yeah, if you want a comparison, generally 4/10 slash fanfiction stories satisfy me while only about 1/10 romance novels satisfy. so far, actually, there have only been two romance novels that 1)i literally could NOT put down and 2) ive read more than once. and those were my first romance novel ever, by Nora Roberts and Bet Me by Jennifer Cruisie (READ IT!).

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Date: 2009-04-19 11:13 pm (UTC)
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YAYAYAY!!!

Date: 2009-04-20 12:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
CLENCH COVER!

Date: 2009-04-19 11:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sisterjune.livejournal.com
Oh my God you've put twilight in a whole different perspective for me now. but twilight is really a romance novel at it's heart too isnt it? though in twilight's case it really IS shit. I mean I'm way past the point where I judge people for what they like. that's STUPID.
When I was young I would do that and I'm glad I grew up out of it cause it's really unfair. You are not what you read/watch/listen to. So in that sense even though I was never a romance novel reader I wouldnt judge someone for liking romance fiction, just like I dont judge my friend for liking wrestling and gundam mecha figurines.

You know what's sad though, you are so right about romance being the least respected. I mean even with comics and high fantasy, hardly considered very highly by the general public for decades, you have this recent trend where they are actually getting alot of popular attention and respect. I mean so many people i've met online could go on for hours about how Alan Moore's Watchmen comic no I'm sorry "graphic novel" is a story for the ages. and Hollywood gave an OSCAR to the 3rd lord of the rings film. which I must admit was brilliant. but seriously, is a story about superheroes or elves, wizards and tiny men somehow less ridiculous than a historical romance novel? It shouldnt be and yet...I mean what's really hilarious is that romance comedies are SO popular, and romance is imbued either subtly or otherwise in just about every show on tv right now. fandom practically runs on shipping, slash or otherwise. I honestly wonder if a show without any semblance of romance in it could stay afloat on american tv . and yet despite all that, there really is a shame attached to romance novels that's really colossal. though I imagine those tacky covers really dont help.
But yeah, I'm reading this and I checked out that blog "smart bitches, trashy books" and I feel like you all make really good points. I never really thought of romance much beyond being about sexy vampires or macho roguish guys romancing delicate lily women. so it did kind of always stay in my mind as that sort of silly genre but I didnt think of it as wrong because it's associated with women and feelings. but sadly, what you siad about most things geared or centered on women being looked down on....it's true :( It's kind of why I'm glad for shows like grey's anatomy, private practice and sex & the city. I dont watch any of them but they are shows for and about women, and possibly by women as wel. and they all are/were really popular. So it's possible that the stigma is fading for women centric things or at least the media will make exceptions for tv things? Although sisterhood of the traveling pants did very well box office wise. but none of these things are considered intellectual, I cant think of anything women centric that ever got intellectual clout except the bronte sisters books, jane austen novels and the hours by virginia woolf. and those are all really old. I personally think though that the best stories are the ones everyone can relate to. men and women, young and old. I kind of wish there were more universally human stories like this rather than all he gimmicky shit you see today, in just about every medium and genre.

Date: 2009-04-20 12:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
Look, I'm not sure if making you see Twilight in a whole new way is a good thing or a bad thing...

As for why those things are popular and respected? They're male archetypes doing heroic, dramatic things. Which is, in essence, what people think fiction should be about. As near as I can tell.

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Date: 2009-04-19 11:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] muses-circle.livejournal.com
Why do things become more respected when women create them and they’re taken over by men, but lose respect when women take them-even part of them-for their own?

Because we live in a world where the female body is worshiped and objectified, but a woman's mind is not? I'm of the opinion that men feel threatened by a strong, independent woman, and if a woman takes away something (no matter what it is) from a man, the view of women changes negatively.

you have a girl who wants something, is told by a man who supposedly knows better that she can’t have it, and even that it’s for her own good. And she goes after it anyway. And she gets it.

Probably the ONLY thing I like about the Twilight series. Mind-numbingly bad plot aside, I am so bothered by possessive!stalker!Edward that I cringe everytime I hear my female students fangirling over him. Because why would they WANT a guy like him?

Date: 2009-04-20 12:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
I share your opinion. Not all men, but very often, the ones in charge. And Original Starbuck Guy.

And Twilight...yeah. It's like, couldn't you have that element in something where what she wants isn't a guy who had to train himself to not think of her as food?

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Date: 2009-04-19 11:30 pm (UTC)
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...I wish I had something intelligent to add, but all I can do is nod in agreement and think of this comic (http://img2.imageshack.us/img2/5630/austenc.jpg).

Date: 2009-04-20 12:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
*sporfle*

You know, I wonder if Jane K. Rowling (no idea what her real name is) would have gotten half the press and publicity as J.K. Rowling. I mean, isn't that even part of WHY she used initials?

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Date: 2009-04-20 12:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] la-vie-noire.livejournal.com
Strip away the writing and the actual plot and all, and at it’s core, you have a girl who wants something, is told by a man who supposedly knows better that she can’t have it, and even that it’s for her own good. And she goes after it anyway. And she gets it. And I think a response to that is a lot of the popularity.

Yeah, actually, I bet that if you keep the plot, change some characters genders, and make it an uber-successful book/comic/whatever between teenage boys? It wouldn't be as bashed and mocked as it is by well-read adults. Heck, some of the most ridiculous fiction are worshiped by a lot of adult people I know with the "it's so awesome, I just love the characters, it's fun!" argument, and are more respected because is, you know, stereotypical shonen manga/targeted to boys (God, I just hate some really popular ones).

It remind me of this article (http://helen-keeble.livejournal.com/74065.html). You probably have read it, but well.

Date: 2009-04-20 12:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
You know, I complwetely forgot about it, but I think I did. It's probably what first got me thinking on it.

And I think you're right about the switching around.

Date: 2009-04-20 12:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] prozacpark.livejournal.com
Yes, that. Also? Novels became a popular form of fiction in the Romantic era, where they were written by and consumed almost exclusively by women. And therefore, looked down upon. You can see bits of this in Jane Austen's work, specifically "The Northanger Abbey" (which we should all read together, YES?), where she criticizes this tendency. And now, of course, NO ONE would think of novels as the lowest form of literature. Because a large part of our literary canon is now made up of novels. Mostly written by MEN. And most don't bother to even acknowledge the contribution of women to this genre.

I totally had to read and analyze "The Flame and the Flower" for my Women and Romanticism class. Mostly, I couldn't get past the rape, but it's also interesting to see *why* rape or some form of non-consensual sex is often a part of romance novels (this is actually what got me to stop reading romance novels at some point). It plays into the Madonna/Whore thing a bit possibly? So the woman gets to have sex (and enjoy it! And they do often enjoy it because if it were actually rape that was horrible as opposed to, um, 'enjoyable,' it'd somehow be WORSE. Meh), but she still gets to be virginal because she never wanted it.

Also! Gothic novels, which contributed to the Romance genre also and were the low genre associated with women before Romance became popular, are similarly filled with all these problematic views of women, but I think they work better for me? And I think that's my whole thing: I can deal with problems dressed metaphorically as demons, ghosts, aliens, and vampires. But my real world issues creep in when those problems are actually called by their name and given to us as rapists, misogynists, and patriarchy, etc.

In other news, "The Flame and the Flower" doesn't really treat women any worse than, um, Hemingway does. Just saying. So if the treatment of women in Romance novels is used as a reason to consider it a low form of literature, why aren't we shunning Hemingway already?

Date: 2009-04-20 12:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
Hemingway is a man?

re: Jane Austen. And let's not forget that she supposedly had to hide her writing materials if anyone came in. I'll bet male riters didn't have to do that. I own but have yet to read Persuasion, Sense and Sensibility, Pride and Prejudice, and Emma, but not Northanger Abbey.

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Date: 2009-04-20 04:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] laura-holt-pi.livejournal.com
To me, romance novels ARE extremely feminist in precisely the way that makes me loathe feminism. They often portray women as victims, or helpless pawns. Most of them have the underlying message that women like or need to be dominated and raped, although not all of them are blatant about it.

Many of them suggest that to be a strong woman and to be sexually available are the same thing. Most suggest that it is more important for a woman to catch a good man than to achieve anything on her own merit, indeed, most romance heroines who have achieved something are portrayed as empty, miserable creatures, insecure and confused about what they want until a man turns up and makes them see that secretly, what they want is to belong to him.

They also tend to be extremely badly written, because it is assumed, apparently correctly, that the target audience will accept anything as long as it has a syrupy "happy" ending involving a woman giving up her identity, her dignity and her independence to become the sexual plaything of a man who has generally made it very clear that he actually doesn't respect her very much at all.

I'm actually quite relieved when I know a romance was written by a man, because I'm not so troubled when a man holds women in contempt as I am when a woman does.

From my point of view, romance gets more, not less respect than it deserves. For me, the field of science fiction (or sometimes mystery) is where you will find the best writing by and about women.

Date: 2009-04-20 09:38 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] re-weird.livejournal.com
All of those problems you describe about romance novels are only true of the bad ones, not the genre as a whole. There are good ones who do not rely on those tropes though I couldn't give you any off the top of my head because I haven't been reading much lately. SF does have some good writing about women but it also has some creeptastic novels that really disgust me, like the Gor series. It all depends more on how good the author is, not the genre of the writing.

As a last note, I wouldn't call any of those things feminist. In fact, most would be called anti-feminist by both myself and every other feminist that I know.

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You probably already saw this

Date: 2009-04-20 05:58 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] estara.livejournal.com
but Smart Bitch Candy Tan did a nice blog entry for Powell's on the disdain that romance novels are addressed with so often, and why it's not true
http://www.powells.com/blog/?p=5985

very relevant quote to the discussion here:

"The usual assumptions about romance novel form tend to go like this: There's the hero and heroine, but they initially hate each other's guts, and at some point the hero rapes her (rip goes the bodice!), but she learns to like it, and then there's some sort of improbable separation, but they finally get back together, and hooray, Happily Ever After.

This is a somewhat accurate outline, as far as it goes — except for two things. One: it mostly describes a particular style of historical romance. Two: this style was prevalent about twenty-five to thirty-five years ago, and had stopped being the norm by the mid-to-late 80s. Subscribing to that view of romance novels is the equivalent of putting on your pant suit and your rhinestone medallion, then showing off your hot disco moves because you're hip, man, you're with it. Because bodice rippers describe a very particular type of romance, people who lump Harlequin into that category (and people who don't know anything about romance always do) is as quaint and hilarious as hearing people assert that all science fiction novels are set in outer space, or that all fantasy novels feature elves and dwarves battling dragons, or that comics are only about superheroes."

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Date: 2009-04-20 10:23 pm (UTC)
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Well, I think it was still quite popular in historicals as recently as 15-20 years ago, not 25-35. All the historicals I read in high school went like that, and they were current.

Harlequins didn't usually have the rape, but otherwise they followed that exact same formula, too.

I'm willing to give they might have changed in the intervening years, but I read a metric fuckton of romance novels in high school and they were all like that.

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Date: 2009-04-20 08:06 pm (UTC)
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I'm too tired to say intelligent things about what you wrote, but ... yeah.

The Genji translation I recommend and used at Stanford is the one by Royall Tyler. It's much more faithful to the original, and it also has better explanatory and cultural footnotes.

Date: 2009-04-21 02:36 am (UTC)

Date: 2009-04-20 08:59 pm (UTC)
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One of the things I've heard occasionally from fans is that they used to be big romance readers, but now they get that emotional hit for free from online fanfic.

And I'm quite sure that some of the people I've seen say that are slash fans.

Which doesn't really discuss your point, but I thought it interesting.

Date: 2009-04-21 02:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
I've actually never seen that said, but I believe it.

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Date: 2009-04-20 10:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amelia-eve.livejournal.com
Here via metafandom.

Someone will know better than I do, but my understanding of Tale of Genji is that Japanese men were writing books, but doing it in Chinese, which was the literary language of the time, in the same way that ancient Romans wrote Serious Stuff in Greek. But most women didn't learn much Chinese, so it was wide open to Murasaki to create literature in the Japanese vernacular.

Another cross-over genre to consider is mysteries. It's one of the few popular fields in which there seems to be a pretty even gender balance, though there are definitely divisions among the various styles. But it was always my genre of choice as a teen, and that was long before Kinsey Milhone came on the scene. Even in Agatha Christie, women get to Do Stuff.

Date: 2009-04-21 02:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
You mean be (meaning "probably are") right. I admit to not knowing a lot about the literature of the time, but my interest in Genji was sparked by various reputable folks spouting it as such. It may be "how historians classify it" thing. But even then, the appropriation still stands.

A lot of the mysteries on the shelves have extended romantic relationships and focus on their careers and friendships, and there does seem to be a crossover appeal. I think, though, that there's a hangup in that, due to the nature, there's probably going to be a dead woman and/or a murderess. And granted, the same is true of men, but there isn't the same history and social stigmas. It's like how you can watch The Closer and gets a show centered around an awesome female lead, but it's in a genre that simply adores lovingly posed bodies of murdered women, and that has a high probability of rape themes.

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Date: 2009-04-20 10:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] angharadd.livejournal.com
Please rec a good translation.
That would be Royall Tyler (http://www.amazon.com/s?ie=UTF8&keywords=royall%20tyler%20genji&tag=opera-20&index=blended&link%5Fcode=qs).

Date: 2009-04-21 02:48 am (UTC)
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Seems to be the consensus. Thanks!

Date: 2009-04-20 10:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dingbatz7.livejournal.com
...Left Behind still makes Twilight read like the complete works of Shakespeare, but that's just me.

But now that I got that out of the way: Good essay. Very good.

Date: 2009-04-21 02:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com
I'm Christian and therefore apparently supposed to declare Left Behind Shakespeare. And yet, never felt the remotest inclination.

Thanks!

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Date: 2009-04-20 11:04 pm (UTC)
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The arguments for slash as feminist always puzzle me a little because I really think one of the more appealing things about slash is that it allows readers and writers to entirely escape from gender politics. It's unfortunate and fucked up in the extreme, but "male" is very much the unmarked and privileged case. That means that it's possible to write a story about two men falling in love (or just getting it on, or some of each, depending on your preferences) without having to bring gender politics into it at all. You can't do that with femslash and you really can't do it with het. So, it really does make a lot of sense from an escapism perspective, but it's not that slash is more feminist than het so much as it is that slash has the potential to be neither feminist nor anti-feminist, whereas het does not.

And, yes, I realize that some (a lot of?) slash gets into really creepy-weird gender roles and/or misogynist bullshit, but those aren't the sorts of stories I read or write, so they're really not the ones I'm talking about.

Oh. My. God.

Date: 2009-04-21 12:47 am (UTC)
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Thank you SO much for saying this in such an elegant way. because-- that's it,the thing that takes me hundreds of words to say and then I delete the damn post anyway...

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Date: 2009-04-21 12:07 am (UTC)
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I don't read romance novels very often, but I do occasionally, and not a single one of the ones I've read involved rape. And they tend to be well-written and reasonably original, although that's due to the fact that I'm incredibly picky in what romance novels I'll read.

I'm not sure what Harlequins are, but I'm guessing they're something like our Mills & Boon, ie a company that specialises in producing large quantities of romance novels?

Picking up on a thread in the comments, I deeply dislike that so few films are written by women... even films that *for* women. Though at least there's a fair few rom-coms which are based on novels written by women (off the top of my head Legally Blonde, Bridget Jones's Diary, Sex and the City, See Jane Date and Confessions of a Shopoholic all come to mind).

Did you ever see a TV documentary series called Reader, I Married Him? Unless you're from the UK I'd guess probably not, although I have seen it available for dl here on LJ. Anyway, it was a series of 3 shows in which a woman traced the history of romance novels from Austen up to current-day chick lit, and it was really interesting; very positive, too. I seem to remember it also addressed issues of how they're perceived by the general public, as well as the impact they have on the women who read them.

I also remember my father watching a film about the people who originally started the Mills & Boon company mentioned above, back in 1908, which was quite interesting though I can't remember what it was called.

Date: 2009-04-21 02:54 am (UTC)
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I'm not sure what Harlequins are, but I'm guessing they're something like our Mills & Boon, ie a company that specialises in producing large quantities of romance novels?

Yep, same business model -- tons of new category romances published every month, sold on racks at grocery stores or via direct mail subscription services, etc. -- and now the same company, actually; they used to have North American reprint/distribution rights for Mills & Boon stuff, and eventually bought M&B in 1971. They've got a bunch of different publishing imprints, but when folks talk about "Harlequin romances" in general, they usually mean the same sort of formulaic category romances M&B are known for.

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Date: 2009-04-22 05:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] takumashii.livejournal.com
The best translation of Genji is the one by Royall Tyler. It's newish (2000, or thereabouts) and the scholarship is really stellar but it comes off as very readable rather than stuffy and academic.

I was just recently thinking about Twilight in the context of abstinence-only education, whether the bland mainstream stuff I got in public school or the more extreme stuff in Christian dating books for teens; abstinence-only education often seems to make it the girl's JOB to keep the boy from having sex with her, to not make herself too desireable, to not believe the boy if he says he loves her. In Twilight, Bella doesn't have to do that at all. That must come as something of a relief!

Date: 2009-04-23 02:45 am (UTC)
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A friend of mine has been comparing Edward to a Victorian character who was always defending his virtue.

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