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meganbmoore) wrote2008-02-21 08:38 pm
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the break from fandom, it is not going so well...
Ok, seriously, how can women NOT be interested in women in fiction, or view them as irrelevant, or only there to complement the guys? I mean, seriously, HOW???
I don't mean liking every female character ever, or always being more interested in the female, I just mean approaching fiction with the idea that the female is less important than the male.
It seems to me that it should be the reverse...but then again, I shouldn't be surprised, as so much of fandom revolves around the ideathat it's good or more interesting to take the role of the female and give it to a male instead(yes, if you slash a canonically, heterosexually paired character with another male, you ARE robbing the female of part of her role in the story and giving it to a male. Period.)
No, I do not dislike you or not respect you or automatically think less of you if you aren't interested in female characters or slash canonically paired males(the f-list would be much smaller if I did.) But I also can't remotely with your viewpoint when you're coming at something with either one.
(ok, I must ask: is there something in the world's water supply the last few weeks? I keep seeing more and more rants...not that I'm one to talk.)
ETA: No, not directed at anyone specifically (I don't post rants directed to specific people if I know them) but on comments in various rants I've read the last week or so.
I don't mean liking every female character ever, or always being more interested in the female, I just mean approaching fiction with the idea that the female is less important than the male.
It seems to me that it should be the reverse...but then again, I shouldn't be surprised, as so much of fandom revolves around the ideathat it's good or more interesting to take the role of the female and give it to a male instead(yes, if you slash a canonically, heterosexually paired character with another male, you ARE robbing the female of part of her role in the story and giving it to a male. Period.)
No, I do not dislike you or not respect you or automatically think less of you if you aren't interested in female characters or slash canonically paired males(the f-list would be much smaller if I did.) But I also can't remotely with your viewpoint when you're coming at something with either one.
(ok, I must ask: is there something in the world's water supply the last few weeks? I keep seeing more and more rants...not that I'm one to talk.)
ETA: No, not directed at anyone specifically (I don't post rants directed to specific people if I know them) but on comments in various rants I've read the last week or so.
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I get so sick of people who are basically just saying, "I don't like this woman because she is with my man." If they made an effort to identify with the woman, they'd get far closer to the man of their choice than they would by writing him as gay.
I think they sometimes forget that the man is fictional and would not be with them even if he weren't with the woman of their choice.
In Steele fandom, I have met people who call Laura manipulative, cruel, unfaithful and neurotic and underneath it all is this adolescent jealousy, "She smells, because the boy I like, likes her."
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I think they sometimes forget that the man is fictional and would not be with them even if he weren't with the woman of their choice."
This is my reaction to so very, very much of fandom. *points to post a couple days ago*
As far as Laura goes...well she CAN BE cruel and manipulative...there are times where she really will do virtually to get what she wants(look at the entire setup ofthe show...) and she can be vicious when crossed the wrong way, but hey, when she lashes out at Steele, he really tends to deserve it. But, seriously, the woman has more than her share of flaws, but so does he. Part of the appeal of the characters is that neither is perfect, they both have a lot of flaws and their flaws often get the better of them. But they also get past it, and the good far outweighs the bad. And, seriously, anything she ever does or says to Steele? The man earns it., one way or the other, whether that specific moment, or because it's been building up.
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Flawless people are mind-numbingly dull.
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Seriously, half the time, I'm surprised she doesn't just stab him in the heart with her high heals, given the stunts he pulls.
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The whole point is the clash of two incredibly smart, clever people with a whole lot of pride who'd realize they were made for each other if they could just swallow that pride.
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How did this work out?
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