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meganbmoore ([personal profile] meganbmoore) wrote2008-02-21 08:38 pm

the break from fandom, it is not going so well...

Ok, seriously, how can women NOT be interested in women in fiction, or view them as irrelevant, or only there to complement the guys?  I mean, seriously, HOW???

I don't mean liking every female character ever, or always being more interested in the female, I just mean approaching fiction with the idea that the female is less important than the male.

It seems to me that it should be the reverse...but then again, I shouldn't be surprised, as so much of fandom revolves around the ideathat it's good or more interesting to take the role of the female and give it to a male instead(yes, if you slash a canonically, heterosexually paired character with another male, you ARE robbing the female of part of her role in the story and giving it to a male.  Period.)

No, I do not dislike you or not respect you or automatically think less of you if you aren't interested in female characters or slash canonically paired males(the f-list would be much smaller if I did.)  But I also can't remotely with your viewpoint when you're coming at something with either one.

(ok, I must ask:  is there something in the world's water supply the last few weeks?  I keep seeing more and more rants...not that I'm one to talk.) 

ETA: No, not directed at anyone specifically (I don't post rants directed to specific people if I know them) but on comments in various rants I've read the last week or so.

[identity profile] filmi-girl.livejournal.com 2008-02-22 12:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the 'I hate reading about ladies' attitude is a product of a general pop culture that sees all things female as less worthy. So, we grow up thinking that women's problems are trivial or boring or not as worthwhile to read about then male buddy bonding on the battlefield.

I hate watching or reading things without a strong female character as lead or secondary lead. Otherwise, I have no character to identify with or provide me with a point of entry into the story. Strangely, I guess, I hate harem manga, but I love reverse harem manga, even though the ratio of male to female characters is opposite of what I would expect that I would like.

[identity profile] meganbmoore.livejournal.com 2008-02-22 05:08 pm (UTC)(link)
"I think the 'I hate reading about ladies' attitude is a product of a general pop culture that sees all things female as less worthy. So, we grow up thinking that women's problems are trivial or boring or not as worthwhile to read about then male buddy bonding on the battlefield."

Which is an attitude that sets off a severe kneejerk reaction in me, because in the online fandom at least, it's the women encouraging the attitude.