random person: what are you doing?
me: reading
RP: oh, is it good?
me: yup(short exposition on book if asked)
RP: so, do you like to read?
inner me: *well, I carry a book around with me at all times and I haven't closed the book to talk to you, just stuck my finger in it while I look up...*
outer me: yes, I love to read
RP: Oh. *few moments silence, nose is reburied in book* So anyway blah blah blah blah...
IM: *nnnnnnoooooooooooooo*
RP: blah *nothing to do with me* blah blah *can't open book cuz it'd be rude even though this is so irrelevant to me that I can't even feign interest and they knew I had no interest when I started* blah blah... *short silence*
IM: *thankyouthankyouthan-*
RP: And you know blah blah...
IM: *sob*
It's not that I DISLIKE talking to people(most people) It's just that I don't get the point of talking just to have noise, and I consider reading to most definately be "doing something" as opposed to the "not doing anything" people see when they see someone reading. I get that not everyone looks at reading as something fun, much less as a preferred passtime, it's just that it's almost always something completely random, and usually something about their personal life(when I barely or don't even know them...that part is another thing altogether when I DO know them) or something that I can't even remotely imagine where the topic came from, and it almost always ends up being one sided because the "two way" part of the consersation only means "yes" and "no" type replies on my part...
(not caused by anything today, or even really recently or anything, just popped into my head today...I always sit by mostly the same people at work now, where it used to be the worst, so they know me and reading)